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By: emw247 on 7/5/09
I live right off Baker and there are wrecks on that road ALL the time, usually kids. When will people learn to slow down? So very sorry for this family's loss.
I live right off Baker and there are wrecks on that road ALL the time, usually kids. When will people learn to slow down? So very sorry for this family's loss.
By: scfutebol77 on 7/5/09
The driver is Caleb Ingram, not Joshua, please update.
The driver is Caleb Ingram, not Joshua, please update.
By: HuskyLover on 7/5/09
I'm so sorry for the loss of life but what was a 17 year old doing out at 3:15 in the morning?
I'm so sorry for the loss of life but what was a 17 year old doing out at 3:15 in the morning?
By: supermanandhiswife on 7/5/09
I understand that this is a public forum for posting your opinions about articles and news stories, but do you all really need to do any reprimanding here where the grieving friends and families can read it? "When will people learn to slow down" and "what was a 17 year old doing out at 3:15 in the morning" are thoughtless comments and questions when a REAL 17 year old REALLY lost his life yesterday. His REAL family spent the whole day in the hospital hoping for the best possible news. His REAL family and friends are now beside themselves with grief over the worst news they have ever received in their lives. So, please, show some respect and keep your foolish questions and comments to your private forums and leave this public place to pay respect to the family. Gabe Brewer was a wonderful, upstanding young man. His friends were too. He left a mark on this community wherever he went. He loved the Lord, his family and his community. He was an amazing basketball player with a bright future. His parents are wonderful people and loving parents. They are responsible, respectful and generous. Their loss is unimaginable and their pain unthinkable. PRAY for them. Send them flowers, but by ALL MEANS be kind and if you cannot be kind then be SILENT.
I understand that this is a public forum for posting your opinions about articles and news stories, but do you all really need to do any reprimanding here where the grieving friends and families can read it? "When will people learn to slow down" and "what was a 17 year old doing out at 3:15 in the morning" are thoughtless comments and questions when a REAL 17 year old REALLY lost his life yesterday. His REAL family spent the whole day in the hospital hoping for the best possible news. His REAL family and friends are now beside themselves with grief over the worst news they have ever received in their lives. So, please, show some respect and keep your foolish questions and comments to your private forums and leave this public place to pay respect to the family. Gabe Brewer was a wonderful, upstanding young man. His friends were too. He left a mark on this community wherever he went. He loved the Lord, his family and his community. He was an amazing basketball player with a bright future. His parents are wonderful people and loving parents. They are responsible, respectful and generous. Their loss is unimaginable and their pain unthinkable. PRAY for them. Send them flowers, but by ALL MEANS be kind and if you cannot be kind then be SILENT.
By: attagirl on 7/6/09
superman, this is a news forum. It is not rude or thoughtless to post opinions or questions about any article that is published. Any family member who reads this should keep that in mind.
When our young people die, we want to know why. Many of us have kids that same age and we hope to learn from other's mistakes. I am curious why a 17 year old was out at 3 a.m. (I have a 16 year old).
superman, this is a news forum. It is not rude or thoughtless to post opinions or questions about any article that is published. Any family member who reads this should keep that in mind.
When our young people die, we want to know why. Many of us have kids that same age and we hope to learn from other's mistakes. I am curious why a 17 year old was out at 3 a.m. (I have a 16 year old).
By: Newport1 on 7/6/09
Who cares why he was out? Maybe he snuck out like 17 year old kids do. Maybe he was on his way home from a late night premiere. To blatantly ask the question "why?" implies fault on his part. Clearly that is not the case. I have a seventeen year old and it would break my heart to have to get on here and read the story about my son't death and then feel the need to defend him in some way. Have a heart people. Yeah, it is a public forum and we will hear the sordid details soon enough. Patience and compassion aren't really that hard to practice.
Who cares why he was out? Maybe he snuck out like 17 year old kids do. Maybe he was on his way home from a late night premiere. To blatantly ask the question "why?" implies fault on his part. Clearly that is not the case. I have a seventeen year old and it would break my heart to have to get on here and read the story about my son't death and then feel the need to defend him in some way. Have a heart people. Yeah, it is a public forum and we will hear the sordid details soon enough. Patience and compassion aren't really that hard to practice.
By: slpn on 7/6/09
Let it be known that it makes no difference why this child of God was out. The fact is he was and for whatever reason he has been called home to be with God, however it will leave a huge hole in his parents and other family & friends hearts. Perhaps that is where our thoughts should be today. I pray God will grant them the strength they will need to get through this. I also think we need to remember the driver of the car, he will suffer massive guilt that he will carry with him for the rest of his life. Please leave all your judgemental opinions out of this. My heart breaks for the family that has lost their loved one and so should anyone's with any decency about them. Remember, God knows what you are thinking and he will have final judgement.
Let it be known that it makes no difference why this child of God was out. The fact is he was and for whatever reason he has been called home to be with God, however it will leave a huge hole in his parents and other family & friends hearts. Perhaps that is where our thoughts should be today. I pray God will grant them the strength they will need to get through this. I also think we need to remember the driver of the car, he will suffer massive guilt that he will carry with him for the rest of his life. Please leave all your judgemental opinions out of this. My heart breaks for the family that has lost their loved one and so should anyone's with any decency about them. Remember, God knows what you are thinking and he will have final judgement.
By: attagirl on 7/6/09
There's a reason we have a curfew for our young people. No, this boy didn't deserve to die no matter why he was out at that hour. But there is nothing disrespectful about asking questions. Just because we ask doesn't mean we think the kid deserved to die. If these questions were posted under his obituary, I'd be right with you screaming at others to have a little respect.
But, like I said, this is a news story and this forum is intended for people to post their opinions on the story. It doesn't mean we don't have any respect for a grieving family.
There's a reason we have a curfew for our young people. No, this boy didn't deserve to die no matter why he was out at that hour. But there is nothing disrespectful about asking questions. Just because we ask doesn't mean we think the kid deserved to die. If these questions were posted under his obituary, I'd be right with you screaming at others to have a little respect.
But, like I said, this is a news story and this forum is intended for people to post their opinions on the story. It doesn't mean we don't have any respect for a grieving family.
By: SocEtTuem on 7/6/09
"attagirl writes on 7/6/09
There's a reason we have a curfew for our young people. No, this boy didn't deserve to die no matter why he was out at that hour. But there is nothing disrespectful about asking questions."
Amen. Incidents like these are the very reason curfews exist in many places. This death is a tragedy, but perhaps we can prevent another by asking such appropriate questions.
"attagirl writes on 7/6/09
There's a reason we have a curfew for our young people. No, this boy didn't deserve to die no matter why he was out at that hour. But there is nothing disrespectful about asking questions."
Amen. Incidents like these are the very reason curfews exist in many places. This death is a tragedy, but perhaps we can prevent another by asking such appropriate questions.
By: Onthehill on 7/6/09
I agree with Superman, Newport, & slpn.
I agree with Superman, Newport, & slpn.
By: Trvlace on 7/6/09
This is a public place. Anyone has the right to say what ever with out being judged. So long as they are not personally attacking another poster. Period. These are old internet rules, and you just can't walk in and change them. Freedom of speach! Let it ring. If you put a cap on this here, then where would that cap stop? Think about it... Flame on!
This is a public place. Anyone has the right to say what ever with out being judged. So long as they are not personally attacking another poster. Period. These are old internet rules, and you just can't walk in and change them. Freedom of speach! Let it ring. If you put a cap on this here, then where would that cap stop? Think about it... Flame on!
By: MissSthrnBell on 7/6/09
I agree, if this were under his obituary it would be different but it's the news article about the accident. Also, these comments do not have to be read by anyone, if they chose to do so, that is their choice. Read the article and be done with it. That is your choice to do so. So please do not be offended when we (the community) have questions.
To the family, (if you chose to read this) I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. My heart breaks for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I agree, if this were under his obituary it would be different but it's the news article about the accident. Also, these comments do not have to be read by anyone, if they chose to do so, that is their choice. Read the article and be done with it. That is your choice to do so. So please do not be offended when we (the community) have questions.
To the family, (if you chose to read this) I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. My heart breaks for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
By: TimeforJustice on 7/6/09
Just because this forum asks for an opinion does not mean it is appropriate to give it. Sometimes it more difficult to just do the right thing and be quiet.
Just because this forum asks for an opinion does not mean it is appropriate to give it. Sometimes it more difficult to just do the right thing and be quiet.
By: Tori0723 on 7/6/09
Trvlace, you are correct in that this is a public place where anyone has the right to say whatever, however anyone who reads what they write has the right to judge them based on their words. God bless this family and help to comfort them.
Trvlace, you are correct in that this is a public place where anyone has the right to say whatever, however anyone who reads what they write has the right to judge them based on their words. God bless this family and help to comfort them.
By: Owl on 7/6/09
I hope it doesn’t happen, but I will not be surprised to hear of a school bus overturning on Baker Road this fall. The sections with steep embankments and almost no shoulder are very dangerous. People run off of that road constantly. There should have been some road improvements as part of building the new Brown’s Chapel school, but they’ve done nothing in that respect.
For all of those who so eager to cast stones, you either are very naive to think your own teenagers will never be out late on a dangerous road or you just plain don't have any. Aside from the fact that the curfew law is almost never enforced, you have no way of knowing if a curfew violation even occurred, as there are some legal exceptions to that law.
I hope it doesn’t happen, but I will not be surprised to hear of a school bus overturning on Baker Road this fall. The sections with steep embankments and almost no shoulder are very dangerous. People run off of that road constantly. There should have been some road improvements as part of building the new Brown’s Chapel school, but they’ve done nothing in that respect.
For all of those who so eager to cast stones, you either are very naive to think your own teenagers will never be out late on a dangerous road or you just plain don't have any. Aside from the fact that the curfew law is almost never enforced, you have no way of knowing if a curfew violation even occurred, as there are some legal exceptions to that law.
By: attagirl on 7/6/09
Owl, nobody is casting stones. We are simply asking legitimate questions in response to a news article. As for the curfew law, you're wrong - it's enforced all the time. I know because I spend a good deal of my professional life in juvenile court and I see them run through there like cattle.
Tori0723, you don't have the right to "judge" anybody. Nobody here has disparaged this young man's family. Not one person.
Owl, nobody is casting stones. We are simply asking legitimate questions in response to a news article. As for the curfew law, you're wrong - it's enforced all the time. I know because I spend a good deal of my professional life in juvenile court and I see them run through there like cattle.
Tori0723, you don't have the right to "judge" anybody. Nobody here has disparaged this young man's family. Not one person.
By: kkano on 7/7/09
Thank you superman and his wife for your comments. Being the mother of an 18 year old child who nearly lost his life 9 years ago at 3:30 in the morning when he fell asleep at the wheel, I feel Gabe's parents' loss. I didn't know Gabe or his family, but after reading about his accident and death I shed tears for his family. I know how devastated they are. It does not matter one little bit what Gabe was doing at 3:15 in the morning. What matters is that he is gone, and his family will grieve for his loss forever. I will pray for them and will think of them.
Thank you superman and his wife for your comments. Being the mother of an 18 year old child who nearly lost his life 9 years ago at 3:30 in the morning when he fell asleep at the wheel, I feel Gabe's parents' loss. I didn't know Gabe or his family, but after reading about his accident and death I shed tears for his family. I know how devastated they are. It does not matter one little bit what Gabe was doing at 3:15 in the morning. What matters is that he is gone, and his family will grieve for his loss forever. I will pray for them and will think of them.
By: Owl on 7/7/09
attagirl, It seems you are intent on having the last word, so I'll allow you have it after I respond to you comments addressed directly at me. You don't have to keep trying to justify your comments. Everyone can read them and judge for themselves. And yes, we all have the right to judge them in a public forum any way we’d like. I didn't say the law is never enforced, I said almost never. Obviously, you wouldn't see all of the ones in court who were questioned and let go with a warning. By the way, there was another 17 yr old passenger in the car during this tragedy and no charges were filed against anyone. Good luck on keeping your 16 yr. old under lock and key until their 18th birthday. I know from personal experience that it is not as easy as you seem to think.
attagirl, It seems you are intent on having the last word, so I'll allow you have it after I respond to you comments addressed directly at me. You don't have to keep trying to justify your comments. Everyone can read them and judge for themselves. And yes, we all have the right to judge them in a public forum any way we’d like. I didn't say the law is never enforced, I said almost never. Obviously, you wouldn't see all of the ones in court who were questioned and let go with a warning. By the way, there was another 17 yr old passenger in the car during this tragedy and no charges were filed against anyone. Good luck on keeping your 16 yr. old under lock and key until their 18th birthday. I know from personal experience that it is not as easy as you seem to think.
By: lightchick on 7/7/09
I can't imagine the pain this family must be going through. No one wants to lose a child at any age under any circumstances. Unfortunately accidents do happen and people do make mistakes. I imagine the circumstances regarding this accident will be a heavy enough burden for all involved without anyone else adding to it. I'm sure there isn't a question or comment posted here that the other teens or parents haven't said to themselves. It's okay to have an opinion and to express it, but I think it is wise to keep in mind how we might feel in a similar situation.
I can't imagine the pain this family must be going through. No one wants to lose a child at any age under any circumstances. Unfortunately accidents do happen and people do make mistakes. I imagine the circumstances regarding this accident will be a heavy enough burden for all involved without anyone else adding to it. I'm sure there isn't a question or comment posted here that the other teens or parents haven't said to themselves. It's okay to have an opinion and to express it, but I think it is wise to keep in mind how we might feel in a similar situation.
By: emw247 on 7/7/09
I NEVER ment to offend anyone! BUT don't let this loss be in vain. People have got to slow down, may be just may be this loss will cause others to slow down and in turn safe a life. That is ALL I was trying to say. And as I stated I am so sorry for their loss and my prayers are with all the families involved.
I NEVER ment to offend anyone! BUT don't let this loss be in vain. People have got to slow down, may be just may be this loss will cause others to slow down and in turn safe a life. That is ALL I was trying to say. And as I stated I am so sorry for their loss and my prayers are with all the families involved.
By: Boo on 7/7/09
lightchick- Very well said. God bless this family.
lightchick- Very well said. God bless this family.
By: attagirl on 7/7/09
Owl, I don't keep my daughter under lock and key. She is a very active girl with two jobs and a couple of extra-curricular activities. Just because I wondered why he was out at 3:15 a.m. doesn't mean I keep my kid under lock and key. My grown daughter is travelling internationally - I don't have any issues with my kids growing up.
I never said anybody did anything wrong - don't put those words in my mouth.
Owl, I don't keep my daughter under lock and key. She is a very active girl with two jobs and a couple of extra-curricular activities. Just because I wondered why he was out at 3:15 a.m. doesn't mean I keep my kid under lock and key. My grown daughter is travelling internationally - I don't have any issues with my kids growing up.
I never said anybody did anything wrong - don't put those words in my mouth.
By: BigOrange44 on 7/8/09
If people would quit building those stupid brick mailboxes maybe he would still be alive. I'm sure they will build it right back just like the ones who's mailbox killed the young guy on Thompson Lane about a year ago.
I think brick mailboxes should be illegal anywhere that the speed limit is over 30 mph.
If people would quit building those stupid brick mailboxes maybe he would still be alive. I'm sure they will build it right back just like the ones who's mailbox killed the young guy on Thompson Lane about a year ago.
I think brick mailboxes should be illegal anywhere that the speed limit is over 30 mph.
By: Porchcat on 7/9/09
Do you know why people have brick mailboxes?
They are tired of buying new ones all the time. Their are kids out there that like to hit them with baseball bats.
Do you know why people have brick mailboxes?
They are tired of buying new ones all the time. Their are kids out there that like to hit them with baseball bats.
By: Geana on 7/31/09
I know I'm late in responding to this one, but after reading today's accident report, the related ones on the left side caught my eye.
I'll just say I'm amused at the "brick mailboxes kill people" comments and leave it at that ;)
I know I'm late in responding to this one, but after reading today's accident report, the related ones on the left side caught my eye.
I'll just say I'm amused at the "brick mailboxes kill people" comments and leave it at that ;)
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